I got up at 6:30am this morning. We had a busy day and I needed to prepare. I made the kids oatmeal for breakfast and gave them all baths. I packed tons of snacks and drinks, the cameras, jackets, toys, diapers, and football and gymnastics gear. I got everyone dressed and fixed Brenna’s hair for her meet. I printed off directions to the gym and the football field. I loaded the van.
Between Brenna’s gymnastics meet and Joshua’s football game, we had some juggling to do today. The two events didn’t actually overlap, but the gym and the football field were separated by a 50 minute drive so I couldn’t get Josh to the football field in time for team warm ups. Normally Rick would have just taken him, but he’d worked a 12-hour night shift and was working another 12-hour shift on Saturday night and he really needed to sleep. So Rick slept for five hours in the morning and I arranged for Joshua to play at a friend’s house from 9:00 until noon.
I dropped Joshua off at 9am and then drove with the other kids up to Brenna’s gymnastics meet. I was emotional on the drive because I hadn’t kissed Joshy good-bye. As I analyzed my feelings, I realized Joshua was fine. He was safe and happy and having a great time with his buddy and I was sure that he wasn’t sad that I hadn’t kissed him. Obviously, I was the only one upset. Realizing that helped me feel better right away. I still missed Josh a lot though. I actually felt lonely without him there, even though I had four other small children to keep me company. When strangers gave me the familiar “you sure have your hands full” comment, it just made me miss Josh more. My hands felt empty without him there. Melodramatic? Maybe. The product of raging pregnancy hormones? Probably. But it was how I felt.
I still had a great time at the meet. It is so fun to watch Brenna compete. It’s incredible to see her so poised and confident, and I love how happy gymnastics obviously makes her. Brenna did wonderfully at her meet (more on that in another post), and the other kids were well-behaved while we watched and waited.
At noon, I gave Rick his wake up call so that he could pick Josh up. Half an hour later, I got a call from Mindy telling me that Josh was still at her house. She said it was fine if he stayed, but that Josh was watching the clock and was getting concerned about missing his game. (How like Joshua!) I called Rick again and he picked him up. Josh had a great time playing with Alex and is already asking when they can play again. I was so glad that my friend Mindy was willing to give up her Saturday morning so that Joshua had a safe and fun place to play.
The meet ended and awards were given and we had just enough time to make the 50 minute drive south for the football game. We were a little late, but still made it during the first quarter. The weather was gorgeous and I loved being outside in the fresh air. The kids had fun cheering and playing with their friends, and the game was very exciting. It was fun to be there as a family and I enjoyed cheering for my darling little football player. (More about Joshua’s game in coming in another post.)
It was 3:30 when the game ended. There was something about the warm weather, a great gymnastics meet, and an exciting football game that created a very enthusiastic energy in our family as we left the football field. In the parking lot, we turned up the music on Rick’s iPhone and sang along as a family. Wanting to celebrate the great day and the football season and Celiac Disease (we celebrate Celiac every October because it was the month Joshy was diagnosed), we decided to go out to eat together. The kids were thrilled and I was really looking forward to yummy food.
The Olive Garden has a gluten-free menu now! We haven’t eaten there in years and considering that we were celebrating Celiac, it seemed like the perfect place to go. We talked about all the things that we were celebrating, Celiac Disease in particular. We want Joshua to have a healthy understand of his disease, to know that he is blessed to have something so easy to control, and to be thankful for the gluten-free foods that keep him healthy. It was a nice talk and then we enjoyed a delicious dinner at Olive Garden. I got really sick at the end of the meal, but oh well- it’s all just a part of pregnancy sometimes. At least I made it to the bathroom in time.
Rick went to work when we got home. I put the kids into pajamas. Brenna helped out with Asher while Joshua helped put away all the stuff that we’d pulled out of the van. I was still not feeling well so I put Asher to bed and put on a movie for the other kids to watch. It was so much easier than putting everyone to bed. Brenna didn’t want to watch the movie so we had “girl time” in my room. We talked while Brenna fixed my hair, painted my nails, and put make-up on me. It was nice to spend time with her.
Last night I started getting symptoms of a yeast infection, probably due to the antibiotics I took recently. Tonight I put in a call to my OB, who recommended getting an OTC treatment. Rick was a sweetie and took an early lunch break around 9pm to bring medicine home. I was so glad that I didn’t have to go out with all the kids to pick it up myself.
We had a fabulous day. It was so fun to attend the gymnastics meet and the football game. It was great to cheer the kids on and to watch them both do something they love. I was so glad that we were able to juggle everything and that I was able to be at both the gymnastics meet and the football game. It was a busy day and lots of fun. The weather was beautiful and perfect. Dinner was nice, even though it did not sit well on my tummy afterwards. A yeast infection is never fun, but at least I have medication to take care of it and at least it’s not dangerous to the baby. So it really has been a great day!